Fight!!! Just not in front of the children!
“And I would like give some advice — sorry, but I recommend this — never fight in front of children, never. It is normal for spouses to quarrel, it is normal. The opposite would be strange. Do it, but that they do not hear, that they do not see. You have no idea of children’s anguish when they see their parents quarreling. This, I dare say, is a piece of advice that will help you to pass on the faith. Is it bad to argue? Not always, but it’s normal, it’s normal. Do it, but don’t let the children hear it or see it. ”
FESTA DEL BATTESIMO DEL SIGNORE CELEBRAZIONE DELLA SANTA MESSA E BATTESIMO DI ALCUNI BAMBINI OMELIA DEL PADRE FRANCESCO, Vatican website, (13 January 2019) (Italian translation to English is ours).
At least he didn’t speak about suckling children this year!